Music Babe Stuck in the 70s&80s (2014 version)

Once in a while, I rehash some of my selected blog pieces here for diversion, wanting to know, as a bonus, whether there has been an improvement in my, ahem, writing prowess. Music continues to be the major force that has been jazzing up my run-of-the-mill existence for decades. The post about my kind of music to boot remains to be my most favorite of them all [original post – 2012 version] and updating it recently has been a gratifying undertaking for me.

Genuine talent in music, in my opinion, is the best gift the gods of heavens could bestow upon someone. Competence in painting, acting, writing, and all the other arts can be cultivated and refined, through diligence and determination; but being a natural in the field of music? It’s either you have it or you don’t. Beautiful melody blending with the right words; what can beat that?

My taste in music is obviously mainstream. The songs I came to like were the products of an epoch that saw me glued to the radio in the 80s and 90s. Eclectic genres I have enjoyed: ballad, mellow, rock, disco, soul,…except for country and jazz (Haven’t developed a total liking for jazz yet, though I’d love to). I believe the sonic of pop music was in its heights in the 70s and 80s. A few songs from the 60s have been unforgettable, too, such as those from The Beatles ”Ticket To Ride“, “In My Life” and Burt Bacharach ”Do You Know The Way To San Jose“, “I Say A Little Prayer“. But the emergence of synthesizers, harmonizers at the beginning of the 1970s was the turnaround that dramatically heralded the new sound of music and paved the way for the optimization of our listening pleasure.

80s music

You can say I was pretty hipped on contemporary music. In the 80s, British bands lorded over my list of preferred musical artists and performers: Spandau Ballet “Only When You Leave“, Duran Duran “Wild Boys“, Tears for Fears “Everybody Wants To Rule The World“, Wham “Everything She Wants“, B52s “Private Idaho“, etc., followed by American groups: Blondie “Rapture“, Kool & The Gang,”Too Hot“, Eagles “One of these Nightsetc.

“Watch out here I come!” (clap clap clap) Remember that spoken line commencing Dead Or Alive’s best-known hit You Spin Me Round? Its lead singer was also a spin-off from Boy George’s flamboyant community, in case you don’t know.

You spin me right round baby right round like a record baby right round round round.

Stay with me and don’t feel dizzy, ok? 🙂

Then there’s the mid-part of Head Over Heels by Tears for Fears I remember chanting with a couple of friends while hanging out in my early 20s:

Something happens that I’m head over heels. I never found out, till I’m head over heels. Oh don’t take my heart, don’t break my heart, don’t…don’t throw it away.

Its MTV proved quixotic for me because it showed Roland Orzabal, leader of TFF, in romantic pursuit of a… (surprise!) librarian who sported wide spectacles while at work inside a library. FYI, to become a librarian was one of my secret dreams in my early teens.

The era had also seen me tripping the light fantastic to several dance beats; everybody in my family loved dancing. One track I loved in particular was The Look of Love by ABC which I initially thought had been belted out by a black artist. Yet ABC was actually a British band who performed in their MTVs and concerts wearing (to my delight) snazzy colorful tuxedos.

When the world is full of strange arrangements

And gravity won’t pull you through

You know you’re missing out on something

Well that something depends on you.

When your girl has left you out on the pavement (Goodbye)

Then your dreams fall apart at the seams

Your reason for living’s your reason for leaving

Don’t ask me, what it means.

dancing lady

Years much earlier in my childhood; my brother, sister and I had become the designated purveyors of entertainment during family gatherings and parties thrown by our relatives. I was, however, an extremely bashful kid. Take as an example: Whenever our Jackson 5 dance number reached the middle portion, my brother would take the lead and start executing The Robot – to be subsequently followed by my elder sis and (supposedly) me. But I…I would freeze for two frightful seconds, as the nearest empty chair would begin activating its magnetic pull on my butt. In the blink of an eye, the audience would find me already sitting down. They’d coax me into rejoining the performance by saying, “C’mon, you can do those moves, too.” But I’d smile and just shake my head from side to side. Didn’t they know not even Darth Vader’s Darkest Force could have lifted me off my seat and made me do The Robot?

Anyway, we always have a good laugh these days whenever the three of us reminisce on our Burn Baby Burn Disco Inferno phase.

Many songs from the 1970s & 80s are still being played here they’ve become hailed as pop classics. I haven’t grown tired yet listening to REO Speedwagon’s Keep on Loving You.

And I meant every word I said

When I said that I love you

I meant that I’ll love you forever…

And there’s this personal anthem of mine: Here I Go Again by Whitesnake. (The MTV featured the lead singer’s sizzling model girlfriend at the time – who also appeared in the band’s steamy video Is This Love.)

Well I don’t know where I’m going

But I sure know where I’ve been

Hanging on the promises in the songs of yesterday

And I’ve made up my mind

I am wasting no more time

And yeah, I guess I should not be ashamed to admit I like many a songs from The CarpentersBreadMadonna, and Tom Jones. 🙂

Rupert Holmes was a big name in my country for ages because his melodies and lyrics appealed to our taste, e.g. Terminal. His favourite theme had been infidelity; a subject that’s hardly my cup of tea – although I get tickled pink by his hit Him.

I don’t want to own her

But I can’t let her have it both ways

Three is one too many of us

She lives with me or stays with him…

What’s she gonna do about him

Time for me to make the girl see

It’s me or it’s him

I’ll leave you with the opening verse to one of my all-time favourite songs: A slow love ballad from my most favourite male vocalist – Paul Davis. I won’t reveal its title by reason of its sentimental value to me in my younger years, but the song reportedly crawled and lingered in the Billboard charts for an incredible 40 weeks. Cool.

Hello Girl, it’s been a while

Guess you’ll be glad to know

That I’ve learned how to laugh and smile…


More fave songs:

She’s so mean but I don’t care

I love her eyes and her wild wild hair

Dance to the beat that we love best

Heading for the nineties

Living in the wild wild west

“There are too many windows in this old hotel, and rooms filled with reckless pride

And the walls have grown sturdy and the halls have worn well

But there is nobody living inside…”


P.S. As promised, this post is dearly dedicated to PTFT, the youngest blog buddy I’ve ever had. He’s been through so much these past few months and I didn’t even know. I had conjectured a guy in his 20s had been simply living his life to the max. Pardon me for my mistaken assumption, my friend. Do hold on.

Photo represents how I looked when I was glued to my radio and cassette player in my pre-teens :-)
Photo represents how I looked when I was glued to my radio and cassette player in my pre-teens 🙂


10 thoughts on “Music Babe Stuck in the 70s&80s (2014 version)

    • Thanks. It’s my most favorite topic so it’s always been the dearest post to my heart.

      Glad to know you’re doing fine again. I know you’re one tough guy. Unlike the others, you already got lots of emotional support from many sides you wouldn’t need mine (joke) :-). But you were in my thoughts.
      Anyway, please take better care of yourself, Dave.

  1. The 70s & 80s, Marj. I suffered heavy influences from a brother, who’s a good half dozen years older, a mix of Aus and international music. The brother moved out of home, then high school set in, and it was an hour long bus ride each way listen to varied aspects in the 80s’ sounds. TV was slim in the bush, but little shows like Countdown, and Rockareana filled the gaps enough. My tastes never actually set on any one, or group of music genres, but can say yes, I’ve heard everyone you’ve mentioned, back in the day. I have to go check out the 2012 version soon, see how different the edit/rewrite looks.

    • Sean, I listened a lot to Australian music (Aussie bands, I mean), too. INXS “I Need You Tonight” is still a favorite of mine; I also liked Little River Band’s “NightOwl.” You know, shy girls like me, then, who usually stayed home had only their radios and cassettes for solace :-). C’mon, please write something about your life during your much younger years. You must have led a very interesting one.

      Yikes, you did take a peek at my 2012 version of this post. It was mushier, you know. Thanks, my dear Sean. You’ve always been darlingly awesome..

      • LRB’s ‘Cool Change’, INXS ‘Falling down the Mountain’, my picks there… Shy girl, I think that’s a song from somewhere around the time too. 🙂 Also didn’t mind ‘The Black Sorrows”.

        Maybe will write something someday 🙂 see what happens. Yes I took a peek 🙂

    • Oh, I’m very familiar with “Cool Change.” It’s one of LRB’s cool hits. 🙂 I’ll look up “Falling Down The Mountain” and “The Black Sorrows.” Songs that arrived here were limited to America’s Top 40 decades ago.

      No no, not maybe. You gotta write more about yourself and your history. I insist. 😀
      Take good care, Sean.

  2. Thank you, my friend, for the kind dedication here. This post was well written and a lot of fun to read. I enjoyed it a lot, especially the part where you described you and your siblings entertaining with the Jackson 5 dance number, and your “stage fright” when it came time to perform the dance move. I can just imagine you all dancing to it!

    You mentioned two Beatles songs, Ticket to Ride and In My Life. I would have to say, overall, ever since I began listening to them as a teenager, The Beatles remain one of my favorite bands. Beyond those two songs, would you consider yourself a fan as well? Do you have a favorite album? For me, that’s hard to narrow down – I like them all. But, The White Album, Sgt Pepper Lonely Heart Club Band, and Abbey Road are three good ones. (I love “As My Guitar Gently Weeps, and “Happiness is a Warm Gun” from the White Album)

    I can remember music was a significant part of my childhood, preteen, and teenage years as well. Before the advent of CDs, I remember locking myself in my bedroom and spending hours laid out next to the boom box as a child, much like the girl in the picture you used to illustrate your post, listening to the radio with a blank tape in the tape deck, waiting for my favorite song to be played over the air. When I was probably in third grad, I think my favorite song was “One Head Light” by The Wallflowers. And once I heard the first notes come crackling over the air waves, I would race to press the “record” button, so I could record it onto this blank tape, so I could listen to it again and again. In this way, as a child, I would make mix tapes. I probably still have one of these mix tapes lying around somewhere though I doubt very much I have a tape deck on which I could play it.

    Music was especially important to me as a teenager. In it, I felt connected to something larger than myself. I turned to music to find a group, to a tribe. In it, I found a sense of identity, a sense of belonging. I found ideas, culture and community. It provided answers about who I was, which are some of the crucial questions you face at that age. I used music, in part, to help define myself. The CDs in my CD binder, in part, where what I used to define what type of person I was. And it was exciting to think that there was something bigger going on, a movement, that you could be a part of just by listening to the music, whether that be “punk”, “emo”, “grunge”, “psychedelic rock” or “stoner music”, if that makes sense. My drug use, which started at 15 and continued until I was 25, also influenced my choice in music a great deal. For instance, when I was using heroin, I listened to Lou Reed and The Velvet Underground, because Reed was a heroin user and wrote songs about heroin,about the drug, about going out to buy it from dealers and so on.

    Well, I am rambling, like I tend to do. Hope to hear back from you. And thanks again for the dedication, thank you for the kind words and wishes. I appreciate you thinking of me.

    • hello, I’m surprised to find you here! 🙂 But I’m glad you are. My schedule at work has been crazy for the past few days. I’ll be getting back to you after a few hours of sleep. I want to be able to reply thoughtfully and more appropriately to my favorite friend.

      And you are not rambling. If you do, I’d still love it because you’ve neglected our friendship for ages (joke). Really, I love anything you write about.
      Please wait. I’ll be back. 🙂

    • I had second thoughts about attaching a link to your site because you might not want any attention from an outsider (as if I had more than a couple of followers 🙂 ), yet there are untold times when I feel that your talent in writing is something others must be aware of. Btw, your comment seems to be better-written than my whole post.
      The topic of Music remains as my all-time favorite, and you had asked me to recommend songs for you to listen to so I had only one special blogger in mind when it came to dedicating this post to.

      The Beatles is a favorite band of mine next to the Eagles. In fact, I love several hits from the Lennon/McCartney tandem including Michelle, And I Love Her, Eight Days A Week, Yesterday, Here There and Everywhere, If I Fell, etc. Their earlier tracks are the ones I like best. I know about many of the albums they made but there are only two in my collection; one of them is an assembly of their best-loved songs.

      “I can remember music was a significant part of my childhood, preteen, and teenage years as well. Before the advent of CDs, I remember locking myself in my bedroom and spending hours laid out next to the boom box as a child, listening to the radio with a blank tape in the tape deck, waiting for my favorite song to be played over the air. And once I heard the first notes come crackling over the air waves, I would race to press the “record” button, so I could record it onto this blank tape, so I could listen to it again and again. In this way, as a child, I would make mix tapes.” I did that, too. Plus my mix tapes are still with me. 🙂 Listening to my favorite mellow songs and dancing to my favorite dance tunes never fail to lift up my spirits. You’re right in saying Music helps define us and is something larger than ourselves.

      I know Lou Reed but I still have to look up The Wallflowers and The Velvet Underground. Thank you for sharing to me here your top picks. Please tell me more favorite songs of yours if you can.

      PTFT, being your good blog pal is a pleasure for me: I thank you as well for the privilege of simply having you around.


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